Sexual double standards, who do we blame?
Feb 19, 12
Mothers. Mothers?! Yes, mothers, not men.
Allow me to explain.
Take a moment to think about this. Take any mother and first think what do they think about sexual double standards; men are studs and women are whores if they have numerous partners, right… Most of them(?) would climb on barricades to declare that women have an equal right to sexual pleasure and multiple partners as men do. Now imagine that same woman explaining to her son that this is all fine… It’s F.I.N.E. “She’s had 20 more partners than you have, but that’s FINE. Don’t you dare judge her for that!” Not gonna happen, am I right or what?
This is where another double standard is born. Sexual freedom is all fine as long as it’s not my son or daughter out there doing it! They deserve… Yes. Better. *That was a whisper.* The ehrm, sluts are all fine for other men, but MY SON deserves someone a little less tainted. Preferably someone who has had none… Maybe one, two… boyfriends? Long term, obviously.
Same goes with the daughters. It’s all fine and dandy for the neighbours girl to get down and dirty with the neighbourhood boys and the footy team – don’t you dare judge her, but MY daughter… She’s better than that. She wouldn’t even want to. And of course the mother will somehow, over the years, make their daughter know that too; She doesn’t want that sort of relationship. Not you. You are above that.
Daughters being the question, I would imagine some fathers like to take a protective approach too, but with their son’s morals, it’s most likely the mother doing the slow brain washing. Dad wouldn’t. He’d just go yeah, you know: “You go son” *whisper behind mum’s back* while the mother slowly feeds into the “no dirty sluts for my boy” idea.
Where does it come from? I don’t know… I don’t think anyone wants to think of their relative, close relatives especially, in a sex act. Any hint of such thing makes your skin crawl. If it’s a son or daughter… Even worse. You see an innocent little child giving/getting a blow job, and that’s not a good feeling, is it? No. I don’t have a child and I can say for certainty that I would not like that idea one little bit.
But as we grow up, we must give up that idea, me thinks. For our own good, that is. Would you really want to date / marry / do a virgin? Like, really? I’m sure some of you sickos would. :p (Kidding, yeah I understand the appeal but you know… After one time you have to start training them. XD)
Yeah, that’s it. That’s all. Over and out.
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