How to say “I love you”
Feb 20, 12
Couple of days ago, could have been Valentine’s, I saw this random pick up line online and it’s been playing up on my mind ever since. Although it was meant to be just a cheeky pick up line, to me it seemed to hold a bigger truth than what first appears. It said: “The only thing your eyes haven’t told me is your name.” It makes me chuckle as I read it again. The thing is… Your eyes really do kind of deceive you – at least if the one looking is paying attention or trusts their intuition. It doesn’t really matter what you say exactly, if you’ve ever held your loved one in your gaze, looked straight in her eyes so that she can read your mind… Well, close to that at least! I don’t know, correct me if I’m wrong, but girls do trust the eyes, and sometimes you can’t hide your love even if you try! Of course if you try to hide it, you put a level of doubt in her mind, obviously, we’re all rational people here, but well, if you want to come back from that, what’s a better way to say “I love you” to a girl than “you are right”? XD Oh I can hear them squirm in delight! What girl doesn’t want to hear their guy say “you are/were right”? I’m joking. I’m so not joking.
If you mean online though… Never met the girl? You’re screwed, mate. Even if you think you love her, it doesn’t count. You can love an online persona like mad, but the god honest truth is that until you meet the person in flesh, you don’t know. The eyes have to meet, I’m certain of that. I’ve been there myself a few times… Online, great stuff, once you meet… Blah. One look in his eyes and you know it’s not going to go anywhere. It’s like online you can see the love in his eyes, but he’s not really looking at you, is he? He’s looking at a (web) camera, imagining someone he loves or someone he thinks he’s going to love… Not you. You might love those eyes, but they are not for you, necessarily. They may be, but you just don’t know until you’re there with him.
So. To do list. (Connect the dots for him real close, says Dr Phil)
1. Ask yourself: “Have I looked her in the eye, deeply?” Check? If so, if it’s true, she knows. Free to move to step two and
2. actually say it. She still needs to hear it.
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